You Got Him: Ultimate Guide to Knowing the Secrets of Mr. Right One and Marry Him for a Lifetime

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You Got Him: Ultimate Guide to Knowing the Secrets of Mr. Right One and Marry Him for a Lifetime

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This book will help you answer the most pertinent questions about attracting the right guy for you namely: “Are you ready to find happiness with Mr. Right?” “Who is Mr. Right? (What makes him “right” for you)”, “Who are you to deserve him? (Are you ready to meet him and keep him?)”

Learn how to spot the man of your dreams the moment you see him, know how you can be ready enough to be in a relationship with him, attract him, entice him, work hard for your partnership and finally get to keep him!

You Got Him:

Ultimate Guide to Knowing the Secrets of Mr. Right and Marry Him for a Lifetime

Introduction

I want to thank you and congratulate you for downloading the book, You Got Him: Ultimate Guide to Know the Secrets of Mr. Right and Marry Him for a Lifetime.

This book contains proven steps and strategies on how to know the secrets of Mr. Right and marry him for a lifetime.

This book will help you answer the most pertinent questions about attracting the right guy for you: “Are you ready to find happiness with Mr. Right?” “Who is Mr. Right? (What makes him “right” for you)”, “Who are you to deserve him? (Are you ready to meet him and keep him?)”

Learn how to spot the man of your dreams the moment you see him, know how you can be ready enough to be in a relationship with him, attract him, entice him, work hard for your partnership, and finally get to keep him!

Thanks again for downloading this book, I hope you enjoy it!

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Chapter 1

Are You with Your ‘Mr. Right’ Right Now? Have You Found the One?

There are only two reasons why you are reading this e-book right now and only one question you need to ask before you continue reading.

First, you are either a happily married woman or girlfriend who has already found you Mr. Right and who is determined to keep him, or second, you are an unhappy single girl, wife or girlfriend who finally wants to find your Mr. Right and attract him then keep him.

Whichever among these two  reader classifications you belong, you might want to be ready to answer this one very important question:  “Are you ready to be happy with your Mr. Right?”

Two sub-questions arise from this main question and these are:

1) Who is Mr. Right? (What makes him “right” for you), and

2) Who are you to deserve him? (Are you ready to meet him and keep him?)

The journey will be easier for the first class of women (assuming they have already indeed found their Mr. Right), but for the second class of women, they need to read a few more good advice to help them find their Mr. Right.

Nonetheless the most important thing to learn here is how you can keep Mr. Right for good—know what makes him tick and get him to stay attracted with you for a lifetime. In the end you may or may not marry but the point is you want to get him to commit to you for a long-term relationship. Get him to fall in love with you and stay in love with you for the longest time possible. Who knows, if you get everything right you will get to keep him for good—forever!

First step is to know the things that you are not doing right to attract Mr. Right.

Chapter 2

Why Are You Not Attracting Mr. Right?

You have waited too long in your life to become happy. You know you deserve it. Yet for some reason, you just seem to attract the wrong kinds of men, or worse, you attract no men at all! Time to find out the root cause of this.

Knowing the 2 Major Types of Men and Your Self

If you are the type of girl who has had too many failed relationships or who has been hurt too many times by the wrong kind of men, think again. You probably need to do something quick to stop the pattern. Ask yourself “what usual kinds of men have you dated before or are you usually interested in”, then ask yourself “how do you view yourself?” in all these types of relationship?

Do you often tend to be attracted to slightly dangerous men who are often charismatic sweet-talkers who says they are not just “ready for a commitment”? Do you often get fooled by men who say they are going to different from the other men that has hurt you in the past or those who say they are going to change if you just give them one more chance or a thousand more?

Stay away from these kinds of men. Also avoid men who particularly have addictive or abusive personalities,  those unreliable or irresponsible men, as well as those who are just too needy.

The problem though is, how can you get yourself to learn from your past mistakes and finally stop your pattern of getting attached to these types of wrong men.

Time to analyze yourself...

Chapter 3

Know That You Deserve Better!

“Don’t settle for anything less than you deserve.” We’ve heard this way too many times before but for some reason some women just won’t listen! Or, they just can’t seem to get it. Here is probably the reason why.

Most women who get attracted to the wrong kind of men, or guys they don’t deserve, have an underlying psychological issue during their childhood, and from this stems their self-destructive behavior pattern.

For instance, if you had been bullied as child or had been overly criticized by your parents or one of your parents, then you probably have very low self-esteem when you were still young. Now that you have become an adult, you may have carried over this trait so when you get into a relationship, any kind of relationship, you often end up with a person who treats you badly as well because this set-up is all you really are familiar with. Your mind may still be hard-wired to become the victim persona in a relationship (or any kind of relationship you get yourself into) all because you have very low self-esteem.

Truth be told, people who had been bullied or pushed over often when they were young finds it very difficult to see the warning signs of an abusive or degrading relationship, especially from the men they would often date.

Know that any woman deserves to have a good man by her side because everyone deserves to be happy. Even if you don’t think you are worthy of a better relationship, you are. You deserve only the best. Understand the root cause of your low self-esteem, victim mentality, or self-destructive patterns, and learn how to spot and avoid those men that are bad for you.

Also, jumping into bed with someone too quickly will only probably end up in a relationship that fizzles out too soon because the guy is not looking for the same thing as you which is a good long-lasting relationship. You don’t definitely want to be with this kind of guy or any guy who is only after the sex.

Get to know a guy first (get to know him well as a friend first, most preferably) before dating him. Research his behavior with other people and do not take on the role of his “rescuer” if ever you see warning signs of destructive behavior or personality traits in him. Just let the guy go. Let go because you deserve someone better. Yes, you deserve to be happy. You deserve to be in a stable successful happy relationship.

So are you ready to meet the man of your dreams? Are you ready for Mr. Right? Are you ready to meet him?

Chapter 4

How Ready Are You to Meet Your Mr. Right?

You finally put yourself out there ready to date (again). You post an ‘Is Single’ status on your Facebook timeline and have even joined new clubs and even signed up for a few online dating sites. Yet are you indeed ready to meet (and keep) the man of your dreams?

You probably already started reading a bunch of self-help books on how to raise your self-esteem, how to become a more attractive and more successful woman, etc., but know this, it is not enough to be ready or even feel that you are already ready if you are not even trying to get yourself out there ready for a good guy to date.

For instance, ask yourself these: 

How do you behave when someone tries to get your number or approaches you at a party to get to know you better?

Are you aware of how you respond to potential dates or the way you handle yourself in situations of meeting new men?

Are you now viewing men generally in a non-judgmental way and have now become more open-minded to dating anew, specifically to dating better men?

Just go for it! Try to get to know a guy first before saying ‘no’ (or ‘yes’.) The key word is try. And then decide if the guy is going to be right for you (or is right for you, if you already are in a relationship and just re-assessing it.)

Saying ‘no’ right away to dating opportunities drastically limits yourself in finding a potentially good date. Here’s a worse case scenario:  Mr. Right may have already tried to ask you out but you said ‘no’ to him too early then without giving yourself the chance to actually get to know him!

Thus, be discerning when looking for a good, smart, and appropriate man, but don’t be too negative and consistently limiting in meeting men. Otherwise, this will minimize your chances of potentially finding your Mr. Right.

Say ‘no’ always and you risk keeping yourself single forever, literally.

Chapter 5

Time to Get to Know Mr. Right!

When you date, your main goal is to not just get any date but to attract the exact date that you want—someone who is not just hot but someone who is actually good to you and good for you. Thus, it helps to keep a list of must-haves in a guy you want and need to date. Note:  The guy doesn’t have to be perfect. Actually, he shouldn’t be—because nobody is perfect. If you keep looking for a non-existent “perfect” guy, then you are destined to live the single life forever.

More or less, all you need to do is to be able to find a good guy, your potential Mr. Right, and spot him the moment you see him.

For instance, when you go to a typical party, the most common scenario is meeting two different groups of men. First, you meet those men who are appropriately dressed, intelligent, good-mannered and well-intentioned, and second, those men who are the exact opposites of the first group of men—those who are just out there looking for women for sex.

Thus, woman in parties searching for dates too are categorized into two different types:  those women looking for the right guys (the One or Mr. Right) and those women who look like they are only there to attract the second group of men (the “bad guys”), particularly those who dress too slutty or look like they have had too much plastic surgeries.

You definitely need to look (think and act) like you belong to first group of women attracting serious dates, going in for the good men or the men in the first group who are probably looking for good women, too, their Ms. Right.

Enhance yourself (but be yourself), say ‘yes’ to potential good dates, know how to spot a good man to date, and know how to present yourself well when around a good guy. Do these and surely, your Mr. Right will be finally meeting you as his Ms. Right and sparks will fly!

Chapter 6

Attract Mr. Right and Marry Him/Keep Him for Good!

Here are a few secrets about Mr. Right. (This is all you have been waiting for!) It helps to know more about him so you can get to finally keep him.

“All About Mr. Right – Secrets of ‘the One’”

1) Mr. Right is not just all about sex. He is actually someone looking for a serious relationship—someone who looks for a girl worthy of his love—someone to care for and someone he wants to commit his life to—also, someone to really bond with and connect with on a deep intellectual/emotional level.

2) Mr. Right can be found only in the right places. He expects the same with you, considering you are a good girl. He doesn’t want to get all tangled up in a reputation-damaging situation wherein someone spotted you at a bar with your so-called “guy friends”.

3) Mr. Right likes a girl with confidence—someone who has the right amount of self-esteem. Less issues, no dramas—enough said. Someone whom he can be certainly proud of to introduce to his close friends and parents.

4) Mr. Right likes a girl who is smart and independent enough to take care of herself and be herself while still depending on his guy to be right by her side because he wants him in her life.

5) Mr. Right likes a girl who has an overall good relationship with her family especially her parents. If you cannot keep a good relationship with your family, how else can you be able to raise one of your own?

6) Mr. Right doesn’t like mean girls. You need to have respect. You don’t have to be all holy, holy. Just be genuinely nice to people. Good guys, no matter how nice they are, certainly don’t want to be insulted or pushed around.

7) Mr. Right likes a girl who is always open to communicate. Yes, at times he may not feel like talking (and you have to respect that), but when he feels ready to talk about important things, make sure you are always open and ready. And don’t forget to communicate with LOVE. No silent treatments. Mr. Right cannot always guess what you are thinking or feeling.

8) Mr. Right likes a girl who can trust him—trust him well enough to let the man make the final decision on important matters, and let him be with his best buds without you constantly bugging him whether he is with a girl or girls or constantly asking who that girl is he just talked to at work. Don’t be paranoid. Don’t be overly jealous. Note:  This is an insult to him or akin to telling him that he isn’t trust-worthy enough. It also sends the signal that you are too insecure with yourself.

9) Mr. Right also likes a girl who is trust-worthy enough. No playing games! Always be upfront and honest with him. Mr. Right also deserves that feeling of security he is giving.

10) Mr. Right loves a girl who would give him space. Although Mr. Right would want to stay committed with you, he also likes to get to keep his personal space. Don’t meddle with his stuff, let him do the things he enjoys doing, and just be supportive of him all the way.

Here are a few more bonus tips. Note:  they are pretty much self-explanatory BUT the key is to always keep them in mind and apply them when needed. Good luck!

•           Don’t be too easy nor too hard to get. Men like the challenge of being able to please their women but they also need some form of appreciation or validation whenever they are doing something right. Don’t forget to thank and acknowledge.

•           Do not punish your man nor compete with him. This isn’t child’s play and you definitely want to be in a smooth, peaceful relationship with your guy. This is the only way to make things last.

•           Do not compare him with other guys. This is either telling him he is not good enough or you are just better of with someone else. Also, try to look beyond his imperfections (as long as they are only minor) and focus on his good sides.

•           Do not be entirely dependent on him. In other words, have a life of your own. This will keep your guy interested in you and prevent him for thinking that he is only someone who “useful” for you or that you are too incompetent to live a life on your own.

•           Do not hold grudges, forget past mistakes, and create good memories together. This will help keep your bond as you constantly remember all the good times you spent together.

So, do you now think you can finally get to be with your Mr. Right and be with him for all eternity?

Learn how to find the man of your dreams, be ready for him, attract him, work hard for the relationship so you can finally get to keep him!

Conclusion

Thank you again for downloading this book! 

I hope this book was able to help you become ready enough to meet your Mr. Right and assist you in finding him and attracting him to be in a long-term relationship with you and only you.

The next step is to apply everything you’ve learned here and make sure you, Ms. Right, and your Mr. Right are both happy in the relationship. Good luck!

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Thank you and best of luck!

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