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You Got
Him: Ultimate Guide to Knowing the Secrets of Mr. Right One and Marry Him for a
Lifetime
Description:
This book will help you answer the most
pertinent questions about attracting the right guy for you namely: “Are you
ready to find happiness with Mr. Right?” “Who is Mr. Right? (What makes him
“right” for you)”, “Who are you to deserve him? (Are you ready to meet him and
keep him?)”
Learn how to spot the man of your dreams
the moment you see him, know how you can be ready enough to be in a
relationship with him, attract him, entice him, work hard for your partnership
and finally get to keep him!
You Got Him:
Ultimate Guide to Knowing the
Secrets of Mr. Right and Marry Him for a Lifetime
Introduction
I want to thank you and congratulate you
for downloading the book, You Got Him: Ultimate Guide to Know
the Secrets of Mr. Right and Marry Him for a
Lifetime.
This book contains proven steps and
strategies on how to know the secrets of Mr. Right and marry him for a
lifetime.
This book will help you answer the most
pertinent questions about attracting the right guy for you: “Are you ready to
find happiness with Mr. Right?” “Who is Mr. Right? (What makes him “right” for
you)”, “Who are you to deserve him? (Are you ready to meet him and keep him?)”
Learn how to spot the man of your dreams
the moment you see him, know how you can be ready enough to be in a
relationship with him, attract him, entice him, work hard for your partnership,
and finally get to keep him!
Thanks again for downloading this book, I
hope you enjoy it!
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Chapter 1
Are You with Your ‘Mr. Right’ Right Now? Have You
Found the One?
There are only two reasons why you are reading this e-book
right now and only one question you need to ask before you continue reading.
First, you are either a happily married woman or girlfriend
who has already found you Mr. Right and who is determined to keep him, or
second, you are an unhappy single girl, wife or girlfriend who finally wants to
find your Mr. Right and attract him then keep him.
Whichever among these two reader classifications you belong, you might
want to be ready to answer this one very important question: “Are
you ready to be happy with your Mr. Right?”
Two sub-questions arise from this main question and these
are:
1) Who is Mr. Right? (What makes him “right” for you), and
2) Who are you to deserve him? (Are you ready to meet him and
keep him?)
The journey will be easier for the first class of women
(assuming they have already indeed found their Mr. Right), but for the second
class of women, they need to read a few more good advice to help them find
their Mr. Right.
Nonetheless the most important thing to learn here is how you can keep Mr. Right for good—know what makes him
tick and get him to stay attracted with you for a lifetime. In the end you may
or may not marry but the point is you want to get him to commit to you for a
long-term relationship. Get him to fall in love with you and stay in love with
you for the longest time possible. Who knows, if you get everything right you
will get to keep him for good—forever!
First step is to know the things that you are not doing right to attract Mr. Right.
Chapter 2
Why Are You Not
Attracting Mr. Right?
You have waited too long in your life to become happy. You
know you deserve it. Yet for some reason, you just seem to attract the wrong
kinds of men, or worse, you attract no men at all! Time to find out the root
cause of this.
Knowing the 2 Major
Types of Men and Your Self
If you are the type of girl who has had too many failed
relationships or who has been hurt too many times by the wrong kind of men,
think again. You probably need to do something quick to stop the pattern. Ask
yourself “what
usual kinds of men have you dated before or are you usually interested in”, then ask yourself “how do you view
yourself?”
in all these types of relationship?
Do you often tend to be attracted to slightly dangerous men
who are often charismatic sweet-talkers who says they are not just “ready for a
commitment”?
Do you often get fooled by men who say they are going to different from the
other men that has hurt you in the past or those who say they are going to
change if you just give them one more chance or a thousand more?
Stay away from these kinds of men. Also avoid men who particularly
have addictive or abusive personalities, those unreliable or irresponsible men, as well
as those who are just too needy.
The problem though is, how
can you get yourself to learn from your past mistakes and finally stop your
pattern of getting attached to these types of wrong men.
Time to analyze yourself...
Chapter 3
Know That You
Deserve Better!
“Don’t settle for
anything less than you deserve.”
We’ve heard this way
too many times before but for some reason some women just won’t listen! Or, they
just can’t
seem to get it. Here is probably the reason why.
Most women who get attracted to the wrong kind of men, or
guys they don’t
deserve, have an underlying psychological issue during their childhood, and from
this stems their self-destructive behavior pattern.
For instance, if you had been bullied as child or had been
overly criticized by your parents or one of your parents, then you probably
have very low self-esteem when you were still young. Now that you have become
an adult, you may have carried over this trait so when you get into a
relationship, any kind of relationship, you often end up with a person who
treats you badly as well because this set-up is all you really are familiar
with. Your mind may still be hard-wired to become the victim persona in a
relationship (or any kind of relationship you get yourself into) all because
you have very low self-esteem.
Truth be told, people who had been bullied or pushed over
often when they were young finds it very difficult to see the warning signs of
an abusive or degrading relationship, especially from the men they would often
date.
Know that any woman deserves to have a good man by her side
because everyone deserves to be happy.
Even if you don’t
think you are worthy of a better relationship, you are. You deserve only the
best. Understand the root cause of your low self-esteem, victim mentality, or
self-destructive patterns, and learn how to spot and avoid those men that are
bad for you.
Also, jumping into bed with someone too quickly will only
probably end up in a relationship that fizzles out too soon because the guy is
not looking for the same thing as you which is a good long-lasting
relationship. You don’t
definitely want to be with this kind of guy or any guy who is only after the
sex.
Get to know a guy first (get to know him well as a friend first,
most preferably) before dating him. Research his behavior with other people and
do not take on the role of his “rescuer” if ever you see
warning signs of destructive behavior or personality traits in him. Just let
the guy go. Let go because you deserve someone better. Yes, you deserve to be
happy. You deserve to be in a stable successful happy relationship.
So are you ready to meet the man of your dreams? Are you
ready for Mr. Right? Are you ready to meet him?
Chapter 4
How Ready Are You to
Meet Your Mr. Right?
You finally put yourself out there ready to date (again). You
post an ‘Is
Single’
status on your Facebook timeline and have even joined new clubs and even signed
up for a few online dating sites. Yet are you indeed ready to meet (and keep)
the man of your dreams?
You probably already started reading a bunch of self-help
books on how to raise your self-esteem, how to become a more attractive and
more successful woman, etc., but know this, it is not enough to be ready or
even feel that you are already ready if you are not even trying to get yourself
out there ready for a good guy to date.
For instance, ask yourself these:
How do you behave when someone tries to get your number or
approaches you at a party to get to know you better?
Are you aware of how you respond to potential dates or the way
you handle yourself in situations of meeting new men?
Are you now viewing men generally in a non-judgmental way and
have now become more open-minded to dating anew, specifically to dating better
men?
Just go for it! Try to get to know a guy first before saying ‘no’ (or ‘yes’.) The key word is try. And then decide if the guy is going
to be right for you (or is right for you, if you already are in a relationship
and just re-assessing it.)
Saying ‘no’ right away to
dating opportunities drastically limits yourself in finding a potentially good
date. Here’s
a worse case scenario: Mr. Right may
have already tried to ask you out but you said ‘no’
to him too early then without giving yourself the chance to actually get to
know him!
Thus, be discerning when looking for a good, smart, and
appropriate man, but don’t
be too negative and consistently limiting in meeting men. Otherwise, this will
minimize your chances of potentially finding your Mr. Right.
Say ‘no’ always and you risk
keeping yourself single forever, literally.
Chapter 5
Time to Get to Know
Mr. Right!
When you date, your main goal is to not just get any date but
to attract the exact date that you want—someone
who is not just hot but someone who is actually good to you and good for you.
Thus, it helps to keep a list of must-haves in a guy you want and need to date. Note: The guy doesn’t have to be perfect. Actually, he shouldn’t be—because nobody is
perfect. If you keep looking for a non-existent “perfect”
guy, then you are destined to live the single life forever.
More or less, all you need to do is to be able to find a good
guy, your potential Mr. Right, and spot him the moment you see him.
For instance, when you go to a typical party, the most common
scenario is meeting two different groups of men. First, you meet those men who
are appropriately dressed, intelligent, good-mannered and well-intentioned, and
second, those men who are the exact opposites of the first group of men—those who are just
out there looking for women for sex.
Thus, woman in parties searching for dates too are
categorized into two different types: those
women looking for the right guys (the One or Mr. Right) and those women who
look like they are only there to attract the second group of men (the “bad guys”), particularly
those who dress too slutty or look like they have had too much plastic
surgeries.
You definitely need to look (think and act) like you belong
to first group of women attracting serious dates, going in for the good men or
the men in the first group who are probably looking for good women, too, their Ms. Right.
Enhance yourself (but be yourself), say ‘yes’ to potential good
dates, know how to spot a good man to date, and know how to present yourself
well when around a good guy. Do these and surely, your Mr. Right will be
finally meeting you as his Ms. Right and sparks will fly!
Chapter 6
Attract Mr. Right
and Marry Him/Keep Him for Good!
Here are a few secrets about Mr. Right. (This is all you have
been waiting for!) It helps to know more about him so you can get to finally
keep him.
“All
About Mr. Right –
Secrets of ‘the
One’”
1) Mr. Right is not
just all about sex. He is actually someone looking for a serious
relationship—someone
who looks for a girl worthy of his love—someone
to care for and someone he wants to commit his life to—also, someone to
really bond with and connect with on a deep intellectual/emotional level.
2) Mr. Right can be
found only in the right places. He expects the same with you, considering
you are a good girl. He doesn’t
want to get all tangled up in a reputation-damaging situation wherein someone
spotted you at a bar with your so-called “guy
friends”.
3) Mr. Right likes a
girl with confidence—someone
who has the right amount of self-esteem. Less issues, no dramas—enough said. Someone
whom he can be certainly proud of to introduce to his close friends and
parents.
4) Mr. Right likes a
girl who is smart and independent enough to take care of herself and be
herself while still depending on his guy to be right by her side because he
wants him in her life.
5) Mr. Right likes a
girl who has an overall good relationship with her family especially her
parents. If you cannot keep a good relationship with your family, how else can
you be able to raise one of your own?
6) Mr. Right doesn’t like mean girls. You need to have respect. You don’t have to be all
holy, holy. Just be genuinely nice to people. Good guys, no matter how nice
they are, certainly don’t
want to be insulted or pushed around.
7) Mr. Right likes a
girl who is always open to communicate. Yes, at times he may not feel like
talking (and you have to respect that), but when he feels ready to talk about
important things, make sure you are always open and ready. And don’t forget to
communicate with LOVE. No silent treatments. Mr. Right cannot always guess what
you are thinking or feeling.
8) Mr. Right likes a
girl who can trust him—trust
him well enough to let the man make the final decision on important matters,
and let him be with his best buds without you constantly bugging him whether he
is with a girl or girls or constantly asking who that girl is he just talked to
at work. Don’t
be paranoid. Don’t
be overly jealous. Note: This is an
insult to him or akin to telling him that he isn’t trust-worthy enough. It also sends the signal that you are
too insecure with yourself.
9) Mr. Right also
likes a girl who is trust-worthy enough. No playing games! Always be
upfront and honest with him. Mr. Right also deserves that feeling of security
he is giving.
10) Mr. Right loves a
girl who would give him space. Although Mr. Right would want to stay
committed with you, he also likes to get to keep his personal space. Don’t meddle with his
stuff, let him do the things he enjoys doing, and just be supportive of him all
the way.
Here are a few more bonus tips. Note: they are pretty much self-explanatory BUT the
key is to always keep them in mind and apply them when needed. Good luck!
• Don’t be too easy nor
too hard to get. Men like the
challenge of being able to please their women but they also need some form of
appreciation or validation whenever they are doing something right. Don’t forget to thank
and acknowledge.
• Do
not punish your man nor compete with him. This isn’t child’s play and you
definitely want to be in a smooth, peaceful relationship with your guy. This is
the only way to make things last.
• Do
not compare him with other guys. This is either telling him he is not good
enough or you are just better of with someone else. Also, try to look beyond
his imperfections (as long as they are only minor) and focus on his good sides.
• Do
not be entirely dependent on him. In other words, have a life of your own.
This will keep your guy interested in you and prevent him for thinking that he
is only someone who “useful” for you or that you
are too incompetent to live a life on your own.
• Do
not hold grudges, forget past mistakes, and create good memories together. This
will help keep your bond as you constantly remember all the good times you
spent together.
So, do you now think you can finally get to be with your Mr.
Right and be with him for all eternity?
Learn how to find the man of your dreams, be ready for him,
attract him, work hard for the relationship so you can finally get to keep him!
Conclusion
Thank
you again for downloading this book!
I
hope this book was able to help you become ready enough to meet your Mr. Right
and assist you in finding him and attracting him to be in a long-term
relationship with you and only you.
The
next step is to apply everything you’ve
learned here and make sure you, Ms. Right, and your Mr. Right are both happy in the relationship. Good
luck!
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